How to Find Purpose in the Pause and Why Stillness Might Be the Key to Your Breakthrough
When you think about moving forward in life, you probably imagine taking action setting new goals, chasing opportunities, and keeping momentum going.
But as TV host and inspirational speaker Carey Cohell shares on Success Thru Connections, sometimes the most powerful move you can make is to stop striving and simply be still.
In a world that celebrates constant motion, stillness can feel uncomfortable even wrong. , Carey’s story is a reminder that your quietest seasons can hold the greatest transformation.
As Carey explains, finding purpose isn’t always about speed or success it’s about faith, surrender and trusting that even in stillness, something sacred is unfolding.
1. The Power of Stillness: When Doing Less Leads to More
After leaving a successful corporate career, she found herself in a hotel room exhausted, confused and unsure of her next step. Days blurred into weeks of stillness and silence.
But what looked like failure was really formation.
Her time of rest became the soil where a new purpose grew. That pause, though painful, became the space where her faith deepened. She learned that sometimes doing less is the only way to make room for what truly matters.
2. Waiting Seasons Aren’t Wasted Seasons
When it felt like nothing was happening, Carrie realized something profound her “slow season” was actually preparation.
She spent hours watching QVC and HSN, fascinated by how hosts connected with their audiences not knowing that one day, she’d be standing in that very spotlight.
What seemed like a detour was actually training ground for her dream.
3. Every Closed Door Has a Purpose
Carrie’s dream of being on the Home Shopping Network did not come easy. She auditioned multiple times, faced rejection, and was told “no” more than once. But each closed door taught her resilience and refined her focus.
4. Gratitude and Faith: The Real Growth Strategy
Gratitude is what carried Carrie through the uncertainty.
When everything felt unclear, she chose to focus on what was still good her breath, her health, the sunshine.
As she puts it, “Worry is a form of worship. So is gratitude. I choose gratitude.”
Because when you choose gratitude over worry, you shift your focus from what is missing to what is possible and that is where miracles begin.
Final Takeaway: The Power of Stillness and Faith
Carey’s story reminds us that growth doesn’t always happen in motion sometimes it begins in stillness.
You don’t need to see the full puzzle to take the next step. You just need faith that every piece, every pause and every person you meet is part of a bigger plan.
Because sometimes, standing still is the most productive thing you can do.
Want more insights like this?
Listen to the full conversation with Carrie Cohell on Success Thru Connections. It’s packed with real-life stories, heartfelt lessons and powerful reminders that waiting seasons aren’t wasted seasons they’re where purpose is refined. Listen to the episode now!